I have a follower....granted it's my daughter, but that's okay. Sometimes I can put things in writing that I can't say. And right now, what I write is that I'd like to slap my son-in-law (soon to be ex, thank you Goddess) up side the head. He is soooooo passive-aggressive. I have watched his behavior over the years and he is, unfortunately, never going to change. Empty promises, lies, convenient forgetfulness...etc. I hope he does not do as his father did and make unkept promises to his son as well as not staying close in his life. He has told me all these plans he has of things he's going to do but I don't think he will do them. Two things he has told me he is going to do that I am waiting to see happen....the first is that he is going to bring RA up to go fishing again....the second is that he is going to get the tent and bring RA up to camp in the yard. I'll believe it when it really happens. And I wish to H--- he'd get the damn Jimmy fixed! It's one excuse after another. I've recommended he contact friends from the track who have a lot of experience working on cars, but nooooooo. Arrrggggh!!!! Can you tell I'm frustrated?!
Hopefully the day of or, at the very latest, the day after the divorce is final he is OUT of the house.
Whew! enough ranting for now. If only he would GROW UP.