I had a good time at the Pigeon Forge Quiltfest.  Learned a lot of new stuff.  Came home to find out that J now has until 4/2 to get his shit together.  I have also found out that while daughter was away he was drinking and smoking pot which he is not supposed to be doing.  He has accused my daughter of lying to him about when she was going to be home (she didn't) causing her to hasten her trip home.  He bitched about things about the house but never offered to help remedy what he bitched about.  Saw that his Facebook account was closed because of his using a fake name (don't think he's allowed to use Facebook because of his past conviction as a sex offender).  Guess I'm going to have to draw a solid line and let daughter know that either he is out or she can find another place to live.  It's time for him to start taking responsibility for himself instead of making others kowtow and do everything for him.  And if he ends up homeless or back in jail so be it.